17 Aug 2013. NEWTON, NJ - It was almost three years ago that Pamela Ianetti was found dead in her 15 New Street home in Stanhope on Dec. 8, 2009. 16 Aug 2013. Valentino Ianetti of Stanhope, New Jersey, who has spent three years in prison awaiting trial for the stabbing death of his wife Pamela in 2009, . Valentino Ianetti, 63, of Stanhope, New Jersey, was held for three years without trial for the murder of his wife in 2009. He was released from jail after the. Although a 2009 autopsy concluded that the death of Valentino Ianetti's wife was a homicide, new evidence suggests that she took her own life. After almost four years, New Jersey resident Valentino Ianetti has been released from jail. Ianetti was imprisoned in December of 2009 after being indicted for the. 15 Aug 2013. NEWTON — After spending three years in jail awaiting trial on charges he murdered his wife by stabbing her 47 times, Valentino Ianetti is a free . 15 Aug 2013. After nearly four years of incarceration, Valentino Ianetti was released from Sussex County Jail after a state prosecutor, Gregory Mueller, . 16 Aug 2013. Valentino Ianetti, 63, was accused of killing his wife of 37 years Pamela Ianetti, 57, at their Stanhope home in 2009. Join Facebook to connect with Valentino Ianetti and others you may know. Facebook gives people the power to share and makes the world more open and .